In windy slow speed close quarters it seems natural to turn the wheel to adjust the bow in the direction one wants to go forward, while the wind is pushing the bow in the direction the wind wants to go, so the captain doesn't realize the stern is no longer behind him but more next to him, swinging out and and ready to go wack into a bow or pilling.
The normal re-action by the captain who does see his stern on the side is to apply more power which swings it out more, and does more damage.
This is the most common screw-up I've seen at the docks on windy days, some boaters continue to keep hitting stuff, not just one hit. The boat is out of control - no other way to call it. Get out of this guys way, very dangerous boater.
If you find yourself in this situation it is too late to correct it, and not wanting to damage your boat or other property, you have to stop the boat immediately by going full guns to reverse - no timid touch, now the boat will stop and if inneutral slowly drift with the wind and you can go to leeward side and push off whatever the boat is moving into.
Now, no damage will occur, but you are stuck from moving - pinned against whatever you are pushing off, hopefully someone will assist you and push you off more so.
Been then and done that!
Then only go in reverse and point motor into the wind and no other direction initially until you are clear, then tun off the wind a bit and the boat will move latterally while staying in reverse, fully under your control, not the wind's control, and you can howl at the wind that you beat at it's own game.
Ha Ha Ha.
I've gone down marina passes practically sideways to get thru, with the bow and stern just feet from clipping something. I have no problem staying in reverse all te way in or out- don't care what anybody says or points at.
Your backup plan has to be practiced, so practice on windy days going any direction you want by only keeping motor in reverse gear. That's right - reverse gear to go any direction you need to go.
What gets me now is not steady heavy wind but big gusty wind. So I try to move quick between gusts, no farting around, just get it done. But many times I have to abandon the approach and go full guns in reverse to get out of it, and try the approach again, and again.
The laws of probability will get you in, sooner or later.