Seasick,
Respectfully, how does a ring become brittle? With steel cylinder liners all 2 stroke rings I have encountered are a high chrome alloy. They don't break easily. I've tried! If the rings got hot enough to affect the integrity of the material, I would think the piston and cylinder would show issues too. A ring can't move nearly enough in the groove to cause the material to fatigue. As for age, metals integrity don't change by age. Excessive heat, stress (form excessive carbon build up), and corrosion of course will. If a lot of carbon was present on the rings at the time of the tear down, I would also agree to replace them.
I agree, that ideally one replaces all wear components on a rebuild to help ensure the engine operates to its intended design life especially if the engine is regularly stressed to its design limits. I doubt lime is going to attempt to get 3k hours out of this engine or run it WOT constantly to get there.
Ignoring all of the above, if a reputable machine shop has significant experience with big outboard and this issue, I would have faith the man knows what he is talking about. Ruining his reputation for $250 is not worth it. However, if he is sketchy, order new rings asap! :mrgreen: