OK, so I'd rather clear this up in a positive way than let it just hang out there.
Look at your first line in your first post. That has a negative conotation to it and yes, I found it offensive. The real question, especially after I explained my intent, is whether RI Adventure found my post helpful or offensive. Quite honestly, your opinion DOES NOT matter here - RI's does.
As far as my post, you PERCEIVED it to be negative/unhelpful. But I flat out told you it was not meant that way. That should have been the end of it right there saying, for example: "Oh, OK, I read what you wrote differently in my head".
I'll repeat this again... unless someone just wants someone else to do the work for them and GIVE them the answer, which I guess is the way with a lot of the younger generation... kindly showing someone how to find the information for themselves is a good thing as it also informs them of a future resource.
There's nothing wrong with someone just giving someone the answer. There's nothing wrong with providing the answer and also giving the link/resource. There's nothing wrong with simply providing the resource.
Why is providing a resource a bad thing? Does that not help them?