I am not equipped with body armor, weaponry , or accompanied by a forensic accountant
I don't want to meet a stranger to do a deal where there is !00 grand or whatever on the table. I also am and everyone should be, aware that there are phony bank checks and /or money orders out there. I don't do crypto currencies either/
If someone is dopey enough to meet me with cash and we meet at a branch of my bank where I can deposit the payment, then I would consider that option
The best approach for both parties is to do the deal at a bank branch where both parties have accounts and you involve a bank officer to oversee the transfer and confirmation of funds.
Of course there is the option to use a broker and not worry if you will be on the 6 o'clock news!
It's sad to say but that's the way it is.
Reminds me of a friend of mine many years ago who was selling his sail boat. Asking price was $55k if I remember correctly. A person answers his ad and says he is interested in the boat. A few day later, the buyer shows up and says he wants the boat. No survey, no sea trial. My friend says OK and the buyer goes to the rear of his car and opens the trunk. In the trunk are blocks of bills, wrapped in cellophane. I forget how much each block was but the buyer counts out the appropriate number and hands them to my friend to count.
After counting and signing over the papers, my friend asks if the buyer is worried carrying all that cash in the trunk and the buyer replies " No, who knows it's there?"
I wonder what that boat was used for......