never heard this "there's more problems with a counter rotating engine"???
engine's are the same,the gear case is different...
as far as gear cases go...braid fishing line is the worst...really tears up the shaft seals...if you're getting water in the gear case,you're gonna need to pressure test and vacum test the lower unit-this is how to locate the leak...vacum test is really important,sometimes the seal will work with pressure,but it will leak on a vacum,hard to believe huh ??? be sure to pay attention to the shafts,if the shaft is burred,it won't seal correctly...
a few metal shavings is normal,this is usallly caused by someone not shifting quickly,if you take it real slow to shift,then there's more grinding,hence,the metal shavings...shift hard and fast,like you mean it...
you really need to service a gear case at least once a season,i like the synthetic high performance gear oil,and allways replace the sealing washers on the vent and drain plug...