Agree.... you will love it. Hydraulic steering is awsome.
Imo, it's not as effortless as say, "power steering" in a car, but it's definitely smoother and more uniform than cable steering.
As far as feeling any feedback goes, there are circumstances where you might feel some. For one, just like with cable steering, it's still a good idea to make sure your steering trim tab, on the outboard, is set correctly. If it's way-off, you'll feel it. The only way to check it, is to drive the boat at a decent speed, on plane, and see how the steering feels, while making turns in either direction. If it feels harder to steer to left, than it is to the right, you'll need to swing the tab to the right a little, (opposite direction). Vise/versa if it's hard when steering to the right. I lost the steering tab on a Yamaha 250 once, (must have vibrated off) and it was really stiff, in one direction.
Another thing is, just like with cable, make sure your outboard is properly lubed, (all the zerk fittings). If the outboards steering tube is tight, or bound-up, because of lack of grease, it's more work for the steering system and your probably going to feel it.
As far as the "tilt" feature goes, I think it's a great option. You can set it one way for sitting and another for standing. And, different drivers can set it to their liking. One thing I've seen though, is try to avoid "hanging on" to your steering wheel for support. The tilt mechanism is a seperate device that's coupled to the helm, and, (imo) you can where it out easier than non-tilt. Obviously it's not a good idea to hang on to the wheel with either type.