I feel your pain. The EXACT same thing happened to me. I finally had to remove the whole flange and put it in a vise to free it up. I then put the flange and new plug back in with 5200, and so far so good. I wanted to replace the flange with a new one, but I noticed that the stock flange at my local supply place was just a little smaller than the original, and wouldn't match the existing screw holes. I will probably make it a winter project to find a new flange and put it on, even if I have to re-drill some new holes.
SwampGrizz
Savannah, Ga.