I agree from that perspective, first time experience can be a disaster.
I spent a lot of time researching, reading, studying and of course testing some smaller projects before I took the plunge. But, this is no different than using paint. If paint is not mixed properly, surface is not prepped properly, sanded/cleaned, etc, then if product is not applied properly, then disaster whether paint or gel-coat.
If one can realize spraying of gel-coat in comparison of paint is how it sprays is so different. Much heavier base product, thicker. Gel-coat application is much more volume of product at each layer vs paint. In both cases, watch the lay of the product as it is applied and watch it flow. If not flowing well, use heavier coat and slow down some on the gun pass, etc.
Just trying to make the point that Gel-coat is not really that hard if you learn it.