As mentioned, many types of anti-seize actually contain trace amounts of metals. Don't use it as you could actually cause some corrosion. Plus, you don't want to diminish the metal-to-metal contact. A LITTLE bit of loctite is fine - with some manufacturer's, they put it on the threads to begin with.
Your Bravo drives did, indeed, have anodes under the anti-ventilation plate - but they were flat since you have power steering. With twin engines, you can certainly use the flat style.
Be wary of the anode composition you get. But it's best to find out what locals are using with a similar setup as you. DO NOT simply make a choice based on the old adage of "Salt=Zn, Fresh=Mg". In many cases, the best composition is Al.
Also be sure you're buying it from a reputable place - don't buy anodes based on cost alone. If you don't want to get Yamaha anodes (which are Al), Performance Metals makes an excellent anode.